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| April 2007 |
If you haven't read part 1 of Joe's medical history, you can do that here.
I should probably add in some details of what was going on in our lives as it plays a part in Jonas deciding not to seek medical attention right away. So here is a brief time line of our lives.
November 1996, Jonas started working full time at Martin Door Manufacturing and I was working full time at Certified Warehouse
June 26, 1997, we got married!
Jan 1998, Jonas started school at SLCC
Jan 1998, I started working full time at First American Title
January 1999, I started school at SLCC
May 2001, Jonas graduated from SLCC
August 2001, Jonas started at the University of Utah. He was also working at SliceX
May 2003, Jonas graduated with honors in Electrical Engineering from the U of U
May 2003, I graduated from SLCC
June 2003, Samuel was born
July 2003, Jonas got laid off his job at SliceX. He decided he should just go back to school since he couldn't find a job.
August 2003, I went back to work at First American Title
August 2003, Jonas started working on a dual Masters and PhD program in Electrical Engineering
Sometime in 2004, Jonas was hired at Lattice Semiconductors
March 2005, Ben was born
March 2005, I quit working to stay home with our boys
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| 2001 SLCC graduate |
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| 2003 SLCC graduate |
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| 2003 U of U graduate |
| Sam is born June 15, 2003 on Father's Day |
| Ben is born March 14, 2005 |
After Joe's ER visit in April 2005, the doctors referred him to a hematologist. I remember how upset he was when the information packet came in the mail and it was from Utah Cancer Institute. Just knowing he had to see a doctor that worked in that facility really scared him. Our first appointment was nerve racking. Every test they wanted to do was in Joe's mind, "the next test that would be positive for cancer." But after several blood tests, a bone marrow biopsy, CT scans, and MRI's. They still could not figure out why his white blood count was so low. The doctor started to talk about it being an autoimmune problem and they did discover he had a really large spleen. At one point I remember a doctor wanting to do a scope on Joe's stomach (I am not positive if it was this doctor) but when he went to the procedure the anesthesiologist wouldn't put him under because of all the crackling he could hear in his lungs. Joe never followed up with a lung doctor. He said he was too busy in school to keep going to all these doctor appointments. Now, I had been trying to get Jonas to see a lung doctor for several years because he was ALWAYS coughing. But he would tell me that the doctors would not be able to fix it, so why bother? Seriously. Men are SO stubborn.
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| Moving out of our Taylorsville condo that we lived in for 8 years! |
Jonas got laid off his job at Lattice Semiconductors in December 2005, one month before we were going to close on our home. It was another small miracle that our loan still went through and we were able to move into our West Bountiful home in January 2006. We lived off of student loans until May 2006 when Jonas was hired at Summit Microelectronics. It was a huge blessing for us to have Jonas working at Summit.
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| We moved into our new West Bountiful home in January 2006 |
With his new job and insurance change, we would now be seeing doctors at the University of Utah. About June of 2006 Jonas had another visit with his diabetic doctor. She found that his white blood count was still really low so she told him to go back to a hematologist. We went to see Dr. Shami at the Huntsman Center. He thought maybe it was Joe's large spleen that was trapping all the white blood cells and causing the low count so he sent us to see a surgeon about getting his spleen removed. He also wanted us to see a lung doctor about all the crackling he could hear in his lungs.
The surgeon did not think removing Joe's spleen was a good idea. He said he wanted a better reason to remove it than just because it was large and that it may or may not be trapping white blood cells.
The second doctor we started to see was Dr. Liou, a pulmonary doctor at the CF clinic. More testing began. One test I remember vividly was the test to see if he had CF (cystic fibrosis). They had him do a sweat test at Primary Children's Hospital. I don't remember exactly how the test was done, but I do remember his arm being wrapped in plastic wrap and we had to wait about 30 minutes before he could take the plastic wrap off. I remember sitting outside waiting for the 30 minutes to pass and how nervous and emotional Jonas was. All these tests were so hard on him mentally.
About August 2006, Dr Shami diagnosed him with autoimmune neutropenia. Which is a chronic low white blood count. Jonas would have to take a neupogen shot every three days to keep his white blood counts at safe levels. It didn't seem too bad. He just had to keep up with the shots and he would be fine. Or so we thought.
About September 2006, Dr. Liou diagnosed him with a rare and life threatening lung infection called Mycobacterium Kansasii. Jonas had to start taking 4 different oral antibiotics for this infection; rifampin, levaquin, ethambutol, and azithromycin. It would be a two year treatment because of how hard it was to get rid of an infection like this.
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| (Notice Jonas is wearing the same thing on Christmas 2005 and Christmas 2006.....he LOVED his UTES hoodie!) |
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| Christmas 2005 |
December 2006 was our first Christmas in our new home. It was also the last Christmas Jonas was healthy. I remember he stayed up late with me to arrange the Thomas the train set the boys got that year. It was a perfect Christmas.
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| Christmas morning 2006 |
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| Santa came! |
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| Jonas loved getting seasons of South Park |
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| Ben has always loved to help build things |
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| Jonas was testing out the cool track he built |
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| A perfect Christmas! |














4 comments:
It was perfect for you and I'm so glad it was. Those better times are what get us through the tough ones. You are amazing. I love you!!
I'm so glad you're documenting all this. it's so nice to read it and I'm sure your boys will like reading it too. LOVE YOU Brit
oh no. i am so sorry. i am glad you left me a comment on my blog.
if you went to jr high with aaron, then you also went to jr high with me. i went to bountiful jr the same years as aaron since we were the same age. :)
do you remember me? leslie higginson. i kinda kept to myself a lot, but you look SO familiar. i don't remember what your maiden name would be though.
anyhow, i am SO sorry for your loss. its a tough road, i won't lie. i am still on it. i TRY to keep my blog as positive as i can lately, but in the beginning, it was open season and i typed my feelings exactly the way i was feeling them back then. i still do once in a while, but i try to focus on the good instead of the grief i feel daily.
if you ever want to write to me, feel free.
lesterlou33 at hotmail dot com
i get together with a couple of other widows kind of often, it really helps to talk to them and hang out if you ever want to come with us. i understand if you don't want to yet, it took me MONTHS to want to get out, but writing to other widows helped a lot.
please know that you are not alone... no matter how alone you feel right now, there are some of us out here that know how you are feeling. that always helped me to not feel quite so alone.
God bless...
leslie *
Thank you Brit for your blog. It's been great to read, look back and see how this all unfolded.. the sweet and the bitter. So grateful that you had such a good Christmas in 2006. As your Mom said "The good times are what will get us all through the tough ones"... I cherish my memories! And yes, you are AMAZING indeed. Love you!
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